What We Look For In Men
We seek men who are:
Practicing Catholics committed to living their faith authentically
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Ready to be married in the next 12 months
Respectful, emotionally mature, and capable of leadership
Aligned with traditional Catholic values and teachings
Free of all addictions, including pornography usage
Financially ready for investment in courtship and sufficiently employed to provide for a wife.
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Detailed Process for Men
01
Complete the Application
Begin by submitting the intake form with thoughtful, honest responses. This helps us understand your readiness for serious Catholic courtship.
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Personal Vetting & Follow-Up
Emily will personally review your application, using it as the basis of a follow-on interview, to ensure alignment with our mission, values, and expectations.
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Acceptance & Waitlist Placement
If accepted, you may be placed on the waitlist until a membership opening becomes available. Membership spots are intentionally limited to preserve the quality and depth of support provided.
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Access While on the Waitlist
​While on the waitlist, you may still respond to featured ads highlighting women in the matchmaking pool. If you express interest, Emily will first ensure alignment and then advocate on your behalf. If the woman agrees to an introduction, you will receive a one-time introduction payment link. Then Emily will facilitate the intro.
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Membership Enrollment
When a membership spot opens, Emily will notify you and provide a private enrollment link. At that time, you may select the membership tier that best fits your needs, or you may stay on the waitlist responding to ads-only. Memberships are billed monthly and may be cancelled at any time.
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Active Membership Support
As a Volo Match client, Emily works directly on your behalf, facilitating introductions, offering guidance, and supporting your courtship until you are seriously discerning one woman. Membership capacity is limited due to the personal investment made in each client.
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Cancelling or Transitioning
Once you enter serious courtship, you may hold your membership spot until engagement, or cancel your membership and return to the waitlist if needed at a later time. While cancelled, you may still respond to featured ads for one-time introductions as before.